Angelita Valdez, 59, was ‘over the moon’ when she was told about the free mass wedding ceremony of the city government of Candon in Ilocos Sur province.
After all, she and her husband, Celso Balberan, 60, have been waiting for this moment for more than 25 years.
But due to financial problems, she said they were not able to afford to get married.
Now with a ring on her finger, as one of the 50 couples who got married on Wednesday, she can now be officially addressed as Mrs. Balberan.
In sickness and in health, she said, their love for each other kept their relationship strong despite not being married.
“Anus laeng ti inpaay ti asawak ta saannak pay pulos kinabkabil. No man pay dumteng no dadduma ti saanmi panagkinnaawatan nga umabot ti panagpanaw ko idiay balay ket umabotak ti sabali a barangay, sursurutennak ken ay-ayawennak (My husband never laid his hands on me. He showered me with love and patience. Although there are times that we have misunderstandings to the point that I leave the house and walk to the other barangay, he patiently follows me and talks me out of it.),” Angelita said.
Celso was her second husband.
She said her first marriage tear her heart apart causing stress and depression.
For some time, she was not in the proper state of mind.
Yet, Celso’s love for her was too strong and he never left her and chose to be with her up to now.
“When I was sick and hospitalized in Manila, even if he wasn’t allowed to enter my room, he patiently waits and accompanies me from afar,” she said.
Now, she feels better and takes medicine as maintenance.
“Sobrang understanding ng asawa ko. Nagpapasalamat ako sa Diyos at ipinakilala Niya sa akin ang asawa ko. Nagpapasalamat din ako sa Kaniya at pinagaling Niya ako,” she added.
This is one of their secrets as a couple – their genuine love and care for each other.